How to Plan a Baby Shower in NZ

Plan a relaxed baby shower — who hosts, timing, themes, games and gift registries.

A baby shower is a chance to celebrate the parent-to-be and help them prepare. Keep it relaxed and focused on what they want.

Who hosts and when

A close friend or family member usually hosts. Many showers are held 4–8 weeks before the due date, when the parent-to-be still feels comfortable. Always check in with them first.

Guest list and style

Traditional (close friends and family) or mixed-gender "sip and see"

Afternoon tea, brunch or garden party

Keep it to 2–3 hours so it isn't tiring

Themes

Soft neutrals and greenery

"Oh baby" balloon backdrop

Storybook theme — guests bring a book instead of a card

Games and activities

Guess the due date and weight

Baby photo match-up

Onesie decorating station

Advice or wishes cards

Gifts

Include registry details on the invitation. Practical gifts like frozen meals, nappies or a meal-train roster are often the most appreciated.

Food

Afternoon tea platters, sandwiches, scones, fruit and mocktails work well. Avoid soft cheeses, deli meats and raw seafood for the guest of honour.